The Pain of Betrayal

                      

               
               Have you LOVED someone unconditionally but still you betrayed him because of something you thought was better ? Have you been in a relationship where you were betrayed ? 
                Loving forces us to stretch and grow, hurt and heal in a way that no other experience provides.

                Loving someone unconditionally is what some of us  experienced . Being in a relationship sometimes  brought us pain and sufferings  but sometimes it brought us joy and happiness . It’s how we create our story .  However, no matter what we do there’s always a possibility that there’s no happy ending . Like loving someone at the right place , at the right time but at the wrong person  . Because sometimes want we want could never be ours .

              Many of us have been hurt, and betrayed but still we keep on fighting . Sometimes these 2 can drop us to our knees and make us believe that we will never trust again.  Mostly when someone close to us . A friend , a family member and  even our own partner . Anyone who has experienced betrayal in a relationship knows how difficult it is to recover from such an experience. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be. So you wonder what happened ? Were you were just wrong on trusting the person so much ? Have you done something ? or maybe you just loved them so much and then they fall out of love in you and loved someone else . How cruel love can be ..

                 There are many reasons that cause people to betray one another. Sometimes they are the consequences of  our choices. We may feel that the relationship is not that important anymore. Feelings change. And as feelings change we do some actions and choices. This changes the relationship. Eventually, it grows apart and opportunities for betrayal will emerge.

                
Betrayal cause too much sufferings. It  changes everything. Relationships and all those affected will never be the same again. What’s done is done. Trust is lost. Wounds run deep and Hearts are broken. And we question ourselves …. Can we bring back the trust that was lost? Do wounds ever heal? Can hearts be repaired? and when will the pain go away ?

                The pain of betrayal has an important impact on the lives of all those who have experienced it. It has the power to change people’s hearts and lives forever. If you have ever been betrayed, you cannot change what has happened to you or make the pain go away. You need time to grieve and be angry. You need time to be comforted and encouraged. You also need time to bring back your faith in yourself and others. Betrayal hurts and there is no fast and easy way to heal it. It takes more than time. Relationships do change as a result of betrayal . But the important is , how it changes you positively and negatively .. Does it brought you good or bad ?